Beth Lunde
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Our Initiatives
MOBB United is dedicated to eliminating the racial disparity that puts our Black sons at a disadvantage in the areas of education and the criminal justice system. To do this, we promote changing negative perceptions and increasing awareness and understanding of the plight of Black boys and men in America. We enable Moms of Black sons to tell their stories, celebrate their accomplishments, and connect them to opportunities that enrich the lives of their sons.
Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. initiatives are designed to:
- Change negative perceptions and stereotypes of Black males
- Equip Moms with vital information needed to raise strong, successful Black sons
- Promote self-care for the whole family
Current Initiatives
The New Talk: For Moms of Black Boys
In December 2023, M.O.B.B. United debuted our podcast The NEW Talk: For Moms of Black Boys. We are changing the way we talk to our sons; why we talk to our sons; and how we talk about our sons! Our SonShines deserve to grow up without the constant exposure to trauma, especially at home. We are having the broader conversations around life and the liberties all of our families deserve.
We Are Changing the Narrative!
If you are the parent of a Black boy, you know what THE TALK is. You also know what it feels like to see the innocence of childhood dimmed in the eyes of your SonShine, as you have that talk. But that is not all we are talking about! THE NEW TALK is educating, enlightening, and sharing information to bridge the gap between all communities.
THE NEW TALK is for every member of the family as we are stronger together. The way we strengthen community is to join community in the solutions.
Tune in on the M.O.B.B. United LinkedIn, Facebook, Spotify, or YouTube pages to see previously aired episodes and catch all of our new content!
Le^el Up The V*te
Our democratic process depends on us! The memoir of America tells the tale of how we had to fight for our right to vote, to exercise our right to vote, and all the ways this country has attempted to strip us of our right to vote. M.O.B.B. United knows all the reasons to be discouraged about participating in the voting process, but we must!
Le^el Up The V*te, MOBB United's voter education campaign is geared towards providing the educational resources needed to make an informed decision at the ballot box. The Le^el Up The V*te campaign will focus on all levels of the election process and how they impact our community directly. We need to be involved in state, city, and county elections if we want to affect change for our SonShines.
Let's Le^el Up The V*te today!
Protect 'em Campaign
The #ProtectEm campaign, initially launched as the #ProtectThem campaign, was one of the first actions taken by the organization in 2016, born of the frustration and urgent cries of Moms everywhere who were afraid for their son's safety in the hands of law enforcement. The country was still reeling from the collective trauma of witnessing online the brutal treatment of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, followed by countless others. This social media imagery campaign quickly became a key initiative and cornerstone of the MOBB United mission.The intent is to flood the internet with positive images of Black boys and men; to soften them visually and underscore the reality that Black boys are not a monolith. We want to change the unfair narrative that our boys and men are inherently violent and lack boundaries. Our Black boys have to navigate life in the face of a world that devalues them; they work hard in school, play sports, have friends of all races, and have goals to become high school and college graduates and live productive lives. We want the world to see them the way their Mothers see them from birth - a precious life that deserves love and protection from harm.Since the inception of this campaign, we have used this ideology and hashtag across all our platforms to drive this message out to the masses in hopes that it will accomplish the very thing that MOBB United was founded upon; to change the perception of young Black males in society.
Check out this #Protectem video!
Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black Boys.
From the moment a Black boy is born, he enters a pipeline with a predetermined trajectory that often ends with being incarcerated. The School to Prison Pipeline is a real thing and it starts with a lack of GRACE for the SonShines we raise. History says making mistakes as a Black boy or man can be catastrophic at almost any age.
M.O.B.B. United is tired of telling the story that ends with the disproportionate suspension, expulsion, and incarceration of our sons. ALL of our SonShines deserve GRACE, UNDERSTANDING, & LOVE. They deserve the opportunity to grow from mistakes rather than receive the harsh punishments the currently receive.
The Grace Campaign
The GRACE Campaign is M.O.B.B. United's newest Changing Perceptions initiative. We will be telling the stories of redemption and personal growth, despite the struggles our SonShines may have experienced. We want to demonstrate how providing support, love, compassion, and understanding while redirecting negative behavior can lead to outcomes that keep our SonShines at home, rather than the penal system. Our children can succeed and M.O.B.B. United wants to extend the GRACE they need to do so!
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Our 5 Pillars
MOBB United's 5-pillar approach is our mission in motion—
Each pillar demonstrates how MOBB United is working to bring our ultimate goal to fruition— a society where our SonShines are seen for the intelligent, innovative, loving, people they are!
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Change Perceptions – Promoting positive imagery and providing opportunities for Black men and Boys to be seen as productive, contributing, values members of our society.
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Influence Policy - Utilizing our collective voice in support of policies that protect Black men and boys and create and/or safeguard the basic freedoms all of our SonShines are entitled to.
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Demonstrate our Power – Leveraging our resources, and vote as a means to illustrate the power we have as a people.
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Partner Strategically – Partnering with like-minded organizations whose mission and purpose aligns with ours.
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Promote Self-Care - Because we know this is a marathon not a sprint, we encourage and provide ways to preserve and replenish our fuel for the fight, centralizing on spirituality, mindfulness, and healthy self-care practices.
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Our Why
Like all moms, we want our SonShines to have a chance to live, learn, and leave their legacies. United, we will protect their right to do so and help them to not just survive but thrive.
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Message from our Founder
Moms of Black Boys (MOBB) United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) are sister organizations that are dedicated to positively influencing how Black boys and men are perceived and treated by law enforcement and in society. MOBB United is a nationwide coalition of concerned moms of Black sons who represent every race, age, socioeconomic background, marital status and education level. What we share is unconditional love for our Black sons, and we want others to see them through our proud eyes.
As moms, we have seen our sons enter the world innocently, take first steps, learn about love, pursue hopes and dreams, and experience disappointments and pain. Like all moms, we want our SUNS to have a chance to live, learn, and leave their legacies. United, we will protect their rights to do so and help them to survive and thrive.
I am the mother of two Black sons. I started MOBB United as a friendly Facebook support group in July 2016. Since then, the movement has grown tremendously, giving birth to a national crusade that has instilled hope, empowerment, and an unwavering commitment to take action.
Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. provides information and support for moms of Black sons and promotes positive images of Black boys and men. The organization is dedicated to changing perceptions, encouraging self-care, and fostering understanding of the plight of Black boys and men in America by telling their stories, celebrating their accomplishments, and connecting them to opportunities. The group supports moms by encouraging strong family and community connections and sharing information that empowers them to navigate all of the institutions that interact with, influence, and impact our sons.
MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) is the advocacy arm and sister organization of Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Its goal is to influence policy at the federal, state, and local levels to ensure that Black boys and men are treated fairly and equitably. MUSC is focused on eradicating harassment, brutality, and unwarranted use of deadly force by law enforcement. We want our sons and law enforcement officers to make it home safely every night.
MOBB United applies a multi-pronged approach that includes media campaigns and storytelling, education and engagement, political and economic empowerment, self-care, strategic partnerships and sustained advocacy and community involvement.
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Early Days
Newsletters:
Blogs:
- Founder's Corner - A message from MOBB United's Founder, Depelsha McGruder.
- Cause (c4) - Policy analysis and advocacy/lobbying; voter education and mobilization; op-eds and media interviews; call center initiatives, letters, emails, petitions; rallies, marches, demonstrations and boycotts; local political activism (civilian review boards, city council, school boards, etc.); national events (e.g., DNC, CBC, etc.); quarterly or monthly action items focused on current cases, legislation, etc.; regular updates to stay on the pulse of key issues, cases, legislation and public figures related to our cause driven by policy, events and demonstrations, and economic development committees working in concert.
- Content (c3) - Image campaigns to change perception of Black boys and men (photo, video, books, theatre, etc.) Educational seminars for members and the community at large (13th, Bullying, Legal Equalizer, Know Your Rights, Trauma, isow.com, Vision Board session, etc.) Forums and panel discussions Quarterly or monthly image campaigns Driven by Communications Committee Monthly virtual seminars with guest speakers Driven by Education and Engagement Committee in coordination with other committees for content and speaker ideas.
- MOBB Connections - Quarterly or monthly local chapter meetings / recruitment outings; MOBB United connections; MOBB United Business Directory; special interest groups (e.g., special needs); driven by Chapter Development and Health and Wellness committees with support from Education and Engagement and Eco Dev committees for the directories; quarterly or monthly local chapter meetings/recruitment outings.
- MOBB Speaks
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Beth Lunde published MOBB United Messenger Edition 7 - April 2018 in Early Days 2024-02-17 08:23:22 -0600
MOBB United Messenger Edition 7 - April 2018
Edition 7 April 2018 
MESSENGER #ProtectOurSons 
Founder's Corner: Our
Sons' Right to BESince the last edition of The Messenger, two more Black males have been in the news for being killed by police. 22-year-old Stephon Clark of Sacramento, CA was gunned down in his family's backyard while holding a cell phone. Officers fired 20 rounds, with 8 bullets piercing through Clark’s body...
SPECIAL FEATURE
Trayvon Martin Remembrance Weekend Reflections
I sat in a Black SUV along with four others I had never met before. We got to know each other on the ride over to the peace walk/peace talk, and by the time we were there, we had formed our pack. It was hard to believe I had just landed in Miami, Florida, just 3 hours earlier. Though the excitement was...
Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress
The Policy and Advocacy Committee finalized and recently launched a new advocacy resource, the organization’s Legislative Policy Platform. The Legislative Platform outlines MOBB United for Social Change’s policy priorities and equips members to be informed about...
MUSC Calls for Transparent and Expeditious Investigation into the Death of 22-Year-Old Stephon Clark
On Sunday night, Stephon Clark was doing the same thing that many of us do regularly — he simply walked around the outside of his home with his cell phone in his hand. That night, Stephon was killed in the...
Parkland Reflections
On February 14th of this year, a young man armed with an AR-15 rifle entered his former high school, killed 17 people—mostly students—and injured 15. This was, by no means, the first school shooting we’ve seen; in fact, there have been at least 17 school shootings to date in 2018 alone. In part because of its...
Donovan’s Story: 14-Year-Old Father of Twins Defying the Odds
Michelle Carter’s voice fills with pride when she talks about her 15 year-old son, Donovan. “He’s incredibly mature and responsible. He doesn’t see himself as doing something remarkable—to him, he’s just doing what he’s supposed to do,” said the proud mom, who is a member of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Private Facebook group. Donovan is the father of twin toddler girls, named...
Passover to Freedom
Go Down, Moses” is commonly known as a “Negro Spiritual”, although it may have earlier origins as a rallying song for escaped slaves who joined Union forces in the Civil War. It is also reported to be a code song for slaves traveling the Underground Railroad out of Maryland. If you are familiar with this song, you may know...
Brothers!
Brothers are the best brothers! They are nurturing, protective, loving and fun! Here is some inspiration from an abolitionist poem: "Am I not a man and brother; Ought I not, then, to be free?" Enjoy these awesome photos...
Special Needs Committee Update: Autism Awareness Month
April is Autism Awareness Month. MOBB United has encouraged moms to be aware of these themes and participate in the following and activities...
Education and Engagement Committee Update
Hello, Moms of Black Boys United beauties! Happy April! Spring is finally here
Our Education and Engagement Committee has been working towards keeping moms engaged through our monthly Facebook live readings and our MOBB United Book...
Gifted Learners: Advocating for Screening and Referrals for Children of Color
My son, Ezekiel, is never without a book in hand and a backpack full of reading on-the-go. As the youngest of five, he probably got read aloud to a little longer and a little more often than his siblings, with me not quite ready to let go of that sweet stage of snuggles and bedtime stories. So, it was no surprise...
THANK YOU
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.
You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping.
*Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. Prior Editions - Feb 2018, Dec 2017, Oct 2017, Sept 2017, Aug 2017, June 2017 -
Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 6 - February 2018 in Early Days 2024-02-17 07:49:18 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 6 - February 2018
Edition 6 February 2018 
MESSENGER #ProtectOurSons THE FOUNDER'S CORNER
MOBB United: Striving to Become Experts in the Black Male Experience
This month, I have been heavily reminded of the reason MOBB United exists. As you probably know, the organization started following multiple police killings of unarmed Black boys and men that were unjustified, but were not punished under the law. Although our mission started in response to police brutality and unwarranted use of deadly force by law enforcement, it doesn’t end there. This is because police brutality that leads to...
SPECIAL FEATURE
MLK Jr. Volunteer Day of Service and Remembrance Activities: Moms and Sons Giving Back
For the second year, Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. were out and about on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service, January 15th, with our sons. The goal was to give back to those in need, honoring Dr. King’s legacy, while changing negative perceptions of our Black boys and men. Please enjoy these pictures of MOBB United moms and their sons doing what matters.
Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress
It’s a new year for MOBB United for Social Change’s Policy and Advocacy committee, and we will soon be rolling out our Legislative Platform. A new resource, the Legislative Platform will equip members to be informed about our policy priorities when they engage with partners and policy makers across the country. We will launch...
MUSC Call Center Update
We stand on the shoulders of our ancestors, moms who were on the frontlines of past Civil Rights movements and moms who resisted the status quo. We organize in the spirit of our righteous mentor, Fannie Lou Hamer, who infamously stated, "I am tired of being sick and tired.” We activate the principles of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC), which include showing our...
MOBB United at San Diego Women's March
On January 20th, thousands of women descended on Waterfront Park for the Women's March in San Diego, CA, to demonstrate their unity and be voices for those in need of support. MOBB United's Communications Committee Chair Vanessa McCullers gave a powerful and passionate speech on behalf of the sister organizations...
Black Maternal Trauma
Part 4: Paying for FreedomDuring President Barack Obama’s era, as it relates to judiciary and more specifically, prison and bail reform, the former President gave state judges discretionary powers to find alternative options to a custodial sentence if the perceived offender could not afford bail, such as a payment plan or community sentence. Just recently, Attorney General Jeff Sessions decided to...
MUSC Official Statement on H&M
Perception. It’s what differentiates ugly from beautiful, good from bad. For many, it relates specifically to how they view things, but for Black and brown boys and men and their moms who love them, it’s almost always connected to how our sons are viewed by society and those in authority. For centuries, Black people have been the object of...
Facebook Re-Post: Cause
The following posts were shared originally in the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. private Facebook group: H&M Op-Ed “No Monkeys Here” by Vanessa McCullers Picked up by Blavity and TVOne Screening and Panel with Eric Garner's Mom...
Kneeling for Justice
With Super Bowl LII just concluding with a Philadelphia Eagles victory over the New England Patriots, one has to wonder what happened to the Black Community and its allies taking a knee for justice? Just the other day, I was on Facebook, and my timeline was flooded with posts about how the Patriots were going to beat the Eagles in the big game. People of color were paying homage to Tom Brady and his athletic ability and his winning record. I was mortified...
Gifted Sons Photo Feature
Our princes are gifted and talented! Members of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. private Facebook group share photos with us so we can share their joy and pride with you. Enjoy this gifted sons photo feature!
Aspiring with Asperger's: A Black Son's Journey into Professional Video Gaming
Moms, if your 18-year-old Black son came to you and said, “I want to be a professional video gamer,” what would your reaction be? Close your eyes for 5 seconds, and imagine that scenario. If you put yourself in Aundrea Caldwell’s shoes, you might think, ‘WHAT THE...?! Boy bye!’ or something like that. But, there’s a twist here. What if your son also has...
Mentoring Matters: Three Families’ Stories of Personal, Academic, and Professional Growth
Encouraging our Black sons to shine is incredibly important to many members of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Facebook group. We hear countless stories of young Black boys and men defining their ambitions, chasing their dreams, and exceeding their goals. In many of our sons’ lives, mentors play a positive and impactful role, inspiring their mentees to carve out a future that is fulfilling and allows them to make their mark on the world...
Facebook Re-Post: Black Son Speaks out against Racial Profiling
Not everyone understands the plight of Black boys and men in America, much less the plight of moms of Black boys, but it's nice to know that our sons themselves do understand. Mom Desiree Robinson is happy to share her 15 year old's perspective...
Education and Engagement Committee Update
Happy February, beauties! The Education and Engagement Committee has started reading another book, Between The World and Me, by Ta-Nehisi Coates. We have had three posts so far this month. If you haven’t already, hopefully you will begin reading the book with us and join in the discussion on Facebook by searching...
MOBB United Connections: Auntie Teri Silar
One of the initiatives of the MOBB United Connections Committee is the Aunties Program. The Aunties Program connects sons who are away from home at school, work, or in the military, with moms across the country. This program provides a village for our sons that ensures that they have their basic needs met, provides them with support from an adult who is nearby, and reassures their moms that their sons are doing well while away...
MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU: Become a Volunteer Today!
Volunteer Shout Out:
Vanessa McCullersWhere does she get the energy?! Vanessa McCullers has been going all out for MOBB United since July 2016, and she seems to be as fully charged as the Energizer Bunny. We know her passion is fueled by her love for her SONshine, Carlos. If you’re wondering what Vanessa does for MOBB United, the answer is well...everything!!! Vanessa initially began as Co-Chair of...
She says, "The morning after Alton Sterling was killed, I went to wake my son for work and found him sitting up in bed. His first words to me was "Mom did you see how they just killed that man" I was too stunned to respond. The very next morning we found out that Philando Castile was killed. No words needed to be said. The words were on my son's face. He was scared, and so was I. But as his mother..."
THANK YOU
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.
You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping.
*Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. Prior Editions - Dec 2017, Oct 2017, Sept 2017, Aug 2017, June 2017 -
Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 5 - December 2017 in Early Days 2024-02-17 06:56:53 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 5 - December 2017
Edition 5 December 2017 
NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons THE FOUNDER'S CORNER
Volunteer: MOBB United Needs You
Over the past year, MOBB United was busy at work advocating for the protection of our sons. We made our national debut at the Essence Festival in New Orleans this Summer and with the OWN Network on a show called “Checked Inn” ...
SPECIAL FEATURE
Holidays without Him
Ahhh, the holidays are here! For many of us, this is a time of joyful anticipation, warm fuzzy feelings and memories of blissful family gatherings that may, or may not, include a heated discussion about who makes the best potato salad. All in all, the expectation is that the month of December ...
MOBB United Online
Moms of Black Boys (MOBB) United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) are sister organizations that are dedicated to positively influencing how Black boys and men are ...
Ed and Eng Committee Update: Black Minds Matter course
Happy December, beautiful MOBB United Moms! We have had a busy year. One of the goals of the organization is to provide critical support to Moms and further their ability to advocate on behalf of their sons. The Education and Engagement Committee has several projects we have been working on to stay true to the MOBB United mission ...
Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress
The MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) Policy and Advocacy Committee sets the strategic policy priorities and drives advocacy initiatives for the organization. As a committee, we set and lead execution of MUSC’s policy agenda, research policies that impact Black men and boys, identify opportunities to advocate on ...
Black Sons Abroad
How many travel writers under the age of 10 years old do you know? None? Well, I'm excited to introduce you to 9-year-old Jace and his little brother, 8-year-old Merl. They are authors, travelers, and young Black princes making their way across the miles and making their ...
Black Sons in Military Service
James Weldon Johnson said: "We have come over a way that with tears has been watered, We have come, treading our path through the blood of the slaughtered, Out from the gloomy past, Here now we stand at last, Where the white gleam of our ...
Gifted Sons -
In the Shark TankWhen the critically acclaimed reality show, Shark Tank, called Ryan Diew in the spring of 2017, his mom, Danine Manette, was not surprised. Ryan’s budding mobile app, Trippie, was in its infancy, but he had garnered recognition from a variety of authorities on entrepreneurship. Further, he had displayed ingenuity and ambition since ...
If You Build It,
They Will ComeMany celebrities have used their positions in the spotlight to make small gestures that made huge statements and brought major progress in civil rights. For example, Nina Simone used her platform as a singer to produce songs that contained lyrics congruent to her beliefs on civil rights. Not only did these songs empower the ...
Special Needs Committee Overview
The ability to experience profound worry is almost a prerequisite for motherhood. When you’re the mother of a Black boy born into this American society, that worry increases exponentially ...
Chapter Development Overview
Chapter Development began just a few days after the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. group was formed on Facebook. With a vast number of moms joining the private group and wanting to connect, we began to create state files so that moms in the same area could connect locally. This was an awesome idea, as many members began ...
Moms Reaching across the Race Aisle: True Sisterhood
My first Cabbage Patch doll was a little boy with dark, chocolate skin, and the first boy I kissed was a sweet, nerdy Black kid. My folks were both in education, voted Democrat, and believed that their actions spoke louder than words. I was the blue-eyed ...
Strategic Financial Partnerships: Banking and Buying Black
In 2011, I moved my money out of a big bank and into a small credit union, one that serves the community of color in which I work. I did this on Bank Transfer Day, launched that November 5th by a woman in California who was ired by newly imposed ATM fees. Bank Transfer Day coincided ...
Facebook Repost: Lynda Jones on Incarcerated Sons
Publisher's Note: Usually, what is discussed in the Moms of Black Boys United private Facebook group remains confidential. Once in awhile though, we get permission from members to repost entries of notable impact. Check out this one by mom Lynda Jones ...
MOBB United Poetry
The Legacy of America
"Red, white, and blue, yes, you!
When all is said and done what will be the legacy of your daughters and your sons?
Will we remember the true natives who were slaughtered and uprooted so that flags of England could be placed upon bloody soil?
Do you hear the beat of their drums? The war cry of their souls? Their arrows piercing the wind?
Fooled into believing their foes were..."MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU: Become a Volunteer Today!
Volunteer Shout Out
Natasha MarieThis lady right here! Natasha Marie has hit the ground running with MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) and Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. She volunteered to write for the newsletter and has so far turned out some excellent pieces: “Young, Black and Incarcerated” and “Hopes and Dreams while Serving Time”, both of which give a powerful voice to moms of incarcerated sons. Check out her latest...
She says, "Being a volunteer with MOBB United has literally been a Godsend! My prayer has been to connect with other women who are of like-minded faith. Finding other women who are mothers (particularly of Black boys) has been an added bonus to my prayers..."
THANK YOU
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.
You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping.
*Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*
Prior Editions - Oct 2017, Sept 2017, Aug 2017, June 2017Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. -
Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 4 - October 2017 in Early Days 2024-02-16 11:03:53 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 4 - October 2017
Edition 4 October 2017 
NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons THE FOUNDER'S CORNER
Supporting Moms of Black Boys United, Inc.
If you've been following our organization for a while, you already know that there are two sides to MOBB United's mission and approach. MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) is our membership organization, which is dedicated to advocating for policy change at the local, state, and federal...
SPECIAL FEATURE
Perhaps it was a moment of deja vu as the nation watched another hurricane form in the Atlantic after Hurricane Harvey had already devastated Texas just a couple of weeks before. This time, it was Irma who threatened the Caribbean and the state of Florida as...
Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress
This summer, in partnership with our 501c3 sister organization, Moms of Black Boys United, Inc., the Policy and Advocacy Committee of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) has focused on outreach to congressional and state representatives. Revamping #MOBBUnitedGetInvolved, we reached out to and organized meetings with key stakeholders, Congressional representatives in particular. We kicked off the initiative with outreach to...
Supporting Moms of Black Boys United, Inc.: Fundraising Strategy
This edition of the newsletter is dedicated to Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. the 501c3 sister organization of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC)...Your support will continue our efforts to build...
HUFF Post Features Mom Kara Higgins' Op-Ed: "I am that B____."
On September 27, HUFF POST shared an article covering a recent Op-Ed penned by MOBB United member, Kara L. Higgins titled "I am that B____"
Kara wrote the piece as a way to capture our collective displeasure at the compounding racial tensions and how it affects our Black boys and men. Thank you, Kara, for so eloquently putting into words what many of us feel every day...
Education and Engagement Committee Overview
The Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Education and Engagement Committee works to provide informative resources and referrals. The committee connects with community organizations and forms partnerships with law enforcement agencies, schools and other organizations to support the growth, development, and success of Black boys and men. Moms can get information and resources to be even better moms and seek guidance about their children’s social, academic...
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Part 3This article discusses the impact of negative, derogatory terms and stereotypes on the psyches of mothers and their sons...
Black Sons Abroad - Part 2
As our series on Black Sons Abroad continues, I had the pleasure of talking with two moms who are raising their young princes, both 4 years old, in the United Kingdom (UK)...
Hopes and Dreams while Serving Time
Nothing is more fervent than a mother’s love...When her son falls, a mom is always there to pick him up and dust off his every bruise...
To Say or not to Say?
Do you ever wonder whether or not you should respond to ignorance, afraid that you may offend someone? Well, until just recently...
Black Boy Joy!
Our sons often are perceived by society and law enforcement as hyper-masculine, violent, threatening, unemotional, hard and impervious...But we moms know them better than that. We know their full...
Woke Mom Meetups
Woke Mom Summer meetups were hot throughout August and September! Hostesses Shantia Coley and Sandra Kearns showed up and showed out in Charlotte and San Antonio on the same day, while Natash Marie and Dannie Jo took on upstate New York with a Woke...
An Interview with Richard Bryan on Black Boy Feelings: Vol. 1: Boyhood"
"Honestly, the hope is that we can shed more light on the infinite variety that exists within the spectrum of Black masculinity. We want Black men to think more deeply about their emotions and believe that their artwork is valid and valuable. Mainstream society is mostly only concerned..."
She says, "I MOBB because Black boys and men walk a tight rope between their educations, their futures, their families and the systemic racism of racial profiling and mass incarceration. I MOBB because as the mother of a Black boy, I cannot be idle. I have to try and change the world."
Volunteer Shout Out:
C.K. LeDanielPassionate, vocal, caring, self-aware, protective, willing, proactive...these are just the first few characteristics that come to mind when C.K.'s name is mentioned. She has made many contributions to Moms of Black Boys United, Inc...
READY TO VOLUNTEER?
*The organization is seeking help in many areas, including copy editing, research, graphic design, etc. We have an urgent need for Chapter leaders for cities and towns all across the country. If you're ready to start a local chapter, the Chapter Leader application is available.*
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store. You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping.
*Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Teri Harris and Vivian Nwankpah>
for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. Story Ideas? Submit them to [email protected]! -
Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 3 - September 2017 in Early Days 2024-02-16 10:16:30 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 3 - September 2017
Edition 3 September 2017 NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons THE FOUNDER'S CORNER
An Open Letter to
President Donald TrumpOur sons are heading back to school, and heavy on my mind is what they may encounter when walking or driving home from school. In this age of “law and order,” it is our responsibility to make sure they are well aware and prepared for what the current climate may bring. If those who have vowed to protect and serve all citizens were to listen to our nation's leader, law enforcement officers have carte blanche to act as judge and jury on the streets, before someone is convicted...
SPECIAL FEATURE
Hurricane Harvey: MOBB United Connecting in Troubled Times
All eyes look to Houston, TX in the wake of Hurricane Harvey and the devastating flooding that resulted. Since last weekend, many Houstonians have held their breath as rains continued and loved ones had to evacuate or be rescued from stalled vehicles and flooding homes. Homes, businesses, and roadways have been destroyed...
Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress
The Policy and Advocacy Committee sets the strategic policy priorities and drives advocacy initiatives for the organization. As a committee, we set MUSC's policy agenda, research policies that impact...
Call Center
"Rapid Response Team" UpdateIn July, MUSC's Rapid Response Team worked on a myriad of local, state, and national issues. Here are some of the Call Center highlights.
- MUSC Founder Depelsha McGruder's open letter to President Donald Trump was the highlight of the month. In July, during a speech to Long Island...
Early Childhood Suspension Study
MOBB United recently connected with Dr. Rosemarie Allen, an Associate Professor at Metropolitan State University. Dr. Allen asked our moms to review and participate in a survey (open to all races) that she and her colleagues (Dr. Vinh and Dr. Strain) are conducting to complete their “Early Childhood Suspension Study”.
Within the study, the researchers are trying to...
School-to-Prison Pipeline
With the 2017-2018 School Year upon us, we are faced with the fact that we are living amid a socioeconomic regression. The current White House administration has all but vanquished the hope of any kind of reform that benefits people of color. This includes education and prison reform. With Betsy DeVos at the helm of the country's entire public education system and Jeff Sessions dissecting our...
Victim Blaming or Basic Social Studies?
Why have lawmakers decided that it is the responsibility of our youth to learn how to communicate with law enforcement? Young people are taught to communicate with their parents from birth through a series of sounds, body language and facial...
Black Maternal Trauma
Part 2My intention for this feature is to discuss in more detail the psychological impact that moms of Black boys and men endure when they watch, read or hear that their son, or a male figure in their family or community...
Black Sons Abroad
Do you ever wonder what it's like for Black sons living abroad? Do you ask yourself questions like:
- Would the police see my son as a threat in Germany?
- How would regular folks in Russia perceive my son?
- Would I be afraid to let my son go hang out at a mall in Sweden with...
Back to School
MOBB United moms are celebrating our scholars as they return to school this Fall. From Kindergarten to College, we are so proud of our Black boys! We know they face the challenges of the school-to-prison...
MOBB United Poetry
Poet Bio: Maryam Dalakiam is an English teacher at a transfer high school in New York City, NY; an activist, an immigrant from Armenia; a mother; a baker; and a staunch believer that the American Dream someday will be an equal opportunity endeavor.
She works with teenagers from all five boroughs and lives in queens with her immigrant, adoptive, interracial, tri-cultural, quadrilingual Jamaican-American family.
He Ain't Done Nothin'
"A boy was shot
Lay in a pool of blood
Outside a grocery store
On a New York City corner
While the milk he had bought
Flowed reluctantly into its own puddle
And sobs and sirens blasted
Piercing
Ear drums
Windows..."
Woke Mom 2017 Summer Meetups
Summer is the time for Woke Mom meetups! We are continuing to criss-cross the country, from Charlotte to Chicago and the Bronx to Baton Rouge. In Baton Rouge, the first one was so nice, they are doing it twice!
Meetups are a great opportunity to meet the moms we've come to know and love online, focus our energies and...
Young, Black, and Incarcerated
Being in the right place at the wrong time could cost you everything! Just picture it: You're a single mom whose faced with the daunting task of paying all of the bills with little or no help. You must work hard to support your family and make ends meet. You're trying to be the best role model you can be for your son, but you often wish there were strong Black...
MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU:
Become a Volunteer Today!VOLUNTEER SHOUT OUT
Frankie Robertson
Since joining the MUSC Policy and Advocacy Committee in January, Frankie Robertson has hit the ground running, and MUSC has benefited tremendously as a result. In addition to serving as lead for the Baton Rouge Chapter, she has been a key contributor and leader of our policy and advocacy work. MUSC is so fortunate to have her energy, talent and commitment at work for us.
On Saturday, August 5th, she organized MUSC’s participation in a state lobby day in support of criminal justice reform initiatives, and she also has established a strong presence amongst peer organizations and elected officials for MUSC on the ground in Louisiana.
During our anniversary month, Frankie organized not one, but...
She says,“Volunteering with MOBB United and MUSC is an honor. It gives me the opportunity to affect change for Black Boys and men with a group of women who know firsthand how I feel. It's not always easy, but I make time to serve, not only for my son, but for all of our sons. I want them to grow up in a world free of institutional racism that has them as its primary target. I want them to reach their fullest potential and be valued in society and afforded their constitutional rights like any mom. Until then, I will remain on the front lines putting my heels to the ground to fight for and protect them.”
MOBB United appreciates ALL of our volunteers. We need you, too. Please volunteer today.
THANK YOU
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.
You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping.
*Special thanks to Teri Harris and Vivian Nwankpah for their contributions in the preparation of this edition.* Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. MOBB United for Social Change
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Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 2 - August 2017 in Early Days 2024-02-16 09:14:53 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 2 - August 2017
Edition 2 August 2017 
NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons THE FOUNDER'S CORNER
by Founder Depelsha McGruder
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MOBB United for Social Change Policy Committee Progress
by Marijke Annis
The MOBB United for Social Change Policy Committee drives advocacy initiatives for our sister organization, MOBB United for Social Change . As a committee, we research policies that impact Black men and boys, identify opportunities to ... Read More 
MOBB United for Social Change Call Center
"The Mighty Rapid Response Team"
by Laila Aziz
When I joined the MOBB United Call Center, the first thing I realized was the passion and motivation of the Chair of Events and Demonstrations Crys Baldwin. I bet that will be one of the first things any new...
Read More MOBB United at Essence Woke Mom 2017 Festival
Moms of Black Boys United marks the first in a series of events
to commemorate the organization's 1st anniversary,
with a debut at the 2017 Essence Festival.
by Vanessa McCullers
J uly 7, 2017 (New Orleans ) – Moms of Black Boys United (MOBB United), made its first appearance with great impact at the 2017 Essence Festival. Their booth activation in the Ernest N. Morial Convention Center was a hub of activity, attracting moms from all over the country looking for a way to help protect their sons, nephews, brothers and husbands from harsh injustices of police brutality, racial profiling and the school-to-prison pipeline. This activation signified the first major step in a series of ...
Read More Black Maternal Trauma
by Uchechi Eke
To coincide with MOBB United’s 1-year anniversary, I was asked to compile a list of unarmed Black boys/men killed by police between July 2016 and July 2017.
I knew the data existed.
I knew it would be a daunting and cumbersome task.
I knew it would resurrect painful...
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All of Us
By CK LeDanielI am the 56-year-old White mom of a Black boy. I can claim many other identities, as can my son, but bear with me for a moment. This is the identity that situates me, in a particular way, in an elementary school in Queens, New York, in the 1960s...
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Meet the Graduates!
By CK LeDaniel
MOBB United moms know that our sons often have to work twice as hard and be twice as good to achieve the recognition and successes afforded to their white counterparts. From Pre-K to Post-Grad...
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From MOBB to MOBB
by Depelsha McGruderPeriodically, I select a mom's post that moved me personally. It may have inspired me or made me laugh, cry, or think differently. The following moms have been recognized with the MOBB to MOBB Award ...
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Woke Mom 2017 Summer Meetups
by CK LeDaniel and the Hostesses
From Brooklyn to Baton Rouge, from Atlanta to Minnesota, from Philly to LA, MOBB United moms are stepping out! We are stepping out of the virtual world, that is, and meeting up in person in cities across the country. Amidst selfies and swag and speeches –- and lots of hugs -– we are getting to know each other and our mission... Read More MOBB United Selects
by Tiffany BargemanVolunteerism is rewarding, but the time, effort, energy, and passion we pour into it is immeasurable.
MOBB United Selects are nominated by their MOBB United peers. Strong women lift each other up, right? These ladies have been recognized this year for contributing so much to this organization .
Read More 
MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU:
Become a volunteer today!
by Tiffany Bargeman
VOLUNTEER SHOUT OUT
Kimberley Alexander
Kimberley has two Black sons, both with special needs: A. Jay, 11 (pictured left), and Malik, 18. She works for Texas Children’s Health Plan as a Nurse Care Manager, but she volunteers with the MOBB United Special Needs Sub-committee to support any member with a child that has a need that is special -- mental illness, physical disability, emotional concerns, gifted classification, developmental delays, etc. Prior to the development of the MOBB United exclusive community, the Special Needs group communicated in a vibrant Messenger chat. now they have a space all their own. Kimberley also contributes her time and talents when needed on the Communications Committee.
MOBB United appreciates Kimberley and all of our volunteers. We need you, too.Please volunteer today.
Read More How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
- Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
-
Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store. You can:
- View and purchase items through secure credit card transactions.
- Search the online store for a particular item.
- Select item attributes
(i.e., size and color, when applicable) -
Designate your order mailing address –- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping .
THANK YOU *Special thanks to Teri Harris and Vivian Nwankpah for their contributions in the preparation of this edition.* Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. -
Beth Lunde published MOBB United Newsletter Edition 1 June 2017 in Early Days 2024-02-16 04:35:16 -0600
MOBB United Newsletter Edition 1 June 2017
Edition 1 June 2017 
NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons 
The Founder's Corner
by Depelsha McGruder
Welcome to the first newsletter of Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. (MOBB United)! If you are new to the organization, we are thrilled to have you here! If you have been with us since our beginnings on Facebook last summer, thank you for continuing with us on this journey. In case you're not familiar with our history...
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MOBB United Policy Committee Overview
by Delicia Hand
Before I became a mother, I always admired the ability of moms -- of Black and brown boys in particular -- to keep focused and remain calm and positive in the multitude of adverse situations they and their sons encountered. When I'd hear my sisters, cousins, and friends talk about the challenges they faced in the educational system, or hear my older nephews talk about... Read More 
Baton Rouge, LA Chapter: Busy MOBB United Moms
by Frankie Robertson and LaToya Guss
Did you know that MOBB United has chapters in various cities across the country? We have sons in every city, and wherever we have sons, we get busy with our advocacy. Advocacy is the biggest part of being a member of MOBB United, and it allows us to achieve...
Read More #ProtectThemLouder
by Pamela Wood-Garcia
As moms of Black boys and men, we all know that our sons experience a plethora of injustices. The greatest of these is untimely, unwarranted deaths at the hands of law enforcement. These incidents have taken place over hundreds of years, with little to no accountability.
Question: Are we protecting them "loud" enough?
Read More 
MOBB United's 1st Anniversary
by Vanessa McCullersWow! I can’t believe it’s been a whole year since we first connected on Facebook! This has been a bittersweet journey that started when Depelsha McGruder decided to create a space for her friends to share concerns and fears...One thing that we learned about ourselves along the way is that WE ARE WOKE!
Kicking off with the Essence Festival, MOBB United will commemorate our 1st anniversary...
Read More 
Celebrating Black Sons as Fathers
by Tiffany BargemanThe priceless relationship between a father and his children is to be honored and cherished. Fathers provide strength, safety and stability; they have special bonds with their sons and daughters.
The perception that most Black men don't step up to the responsibilities of fatherhood must be changed. It's just one more wrong...
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MOBB United Outreach
by Tiffany Bargeman, Vanessa McCullers, Kimberley Robinson Alexander, Munirah Smalls and Pamela Wood-Garcia
When a Black son is victimized, his mother suffers unimaginable grief, along with others in his immediate family. MOBB United, as his extended family, grieves as well. We grieve with the mother whose son was taken from her. We grieve with his children who will grow up without their father. We grieve... Read More 
MOBB United Book Club
by CK LeDaniel
featuring Kumari Ghafoor-Davis, Uchechi EkeOur book club was launched on March 18 with the book, "The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness," by Michelle Alexander. We selected this book in part because... Read More SunAngels
by Kathei McCoy
We are honored to memorialize our SunAngels and to extend our support to you as you grieve the loss of your sons. Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. (MOBB United) was founded out of grief over lost sons not personally known to most of us, but we embrace all of our princes as our own and we share in your sadness as well as your joyful memories.
Read More 
"Walking the Circle"
by Keisha-Gaye Anderson
With the never-ending news of tragedy and heartbreak, do you ever feel like you're walking in circles? Featured Poet Keisha-Gaye Anderson understands and puts into words what we sometimes wish we could. Read More 2017 MLK Day of Service
by CK LeDaniel
MOBB United is more than 176,000 moms strong and growing, but we are made exponentially stronger by virtue of our partnerships with others. While ours is a singular focus on the well-being of our Black sons, there are many other groups whose goals overlap and complement our own. Read More 
Read More about Kricorian Art Speaks
- Check out this dope art from our featured artist Susan Kricorian!
- Art Collector Sells a Lichtenstein for $165M to Fund Criminal Justice Reform
MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU: Become a volunteer today!
There are so many ways to contribute your talents, passion, and time to the worthy cause of PROTECTING OUR SONS. We certainly could use your help with the newsletter, OR you can volunteer to support MOBB United in a different area.
There are numerous committees that need support: Communications, Health and Wellness, Education and Engagement, Events and Demonstrations, Organizational Development, and Policy.
How can you support the cause to protect our sons?
- Join MOBB United: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.
-
Purchase MOBB United merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store. You can:
- View and purchase items through secure credit card transactions.
- Search the online store for a particular item.
- Select item attributes
(i.e., size and color, when applicable) -
Designate your order mailing address –- home, work or wherever you choose!
Note: All store prices include shipping .
THANK YOU *Special thanks to Teri Harris for helping gather and organize photos for this edition.* Our Mission MOBB United aims to provide information and support for moms of Black sons while promoting positive images of Black boys and men. Our goal is to influence policy impacting how Black boys and men are treated by law enforcement and society. About This Email You have received this email because you are currently subscribed to receive general correspondence. Please click unsubscribe if you no longer wish to receive these communications. -
Tag Connor, you're it!
By Rebecca Palermo
A natural storyteller publishes his first series at age 9!!!
Sometimes, our sons are presented with extraordinary opportunities, and we ought to shout it to the world! Our princes are doing BIG THINGS! How is your son shining his light? If you have a *Content story idea, please share with by commenting in the Gifted Sons post on Facebook, or send an email to [email protected] so we can feature him in our MOBB United for Social Change (MUSC)/MOBB United Messenger publication. Didn't know we had one? Visit www.mobbunited.org today to learn more about the organization. You’ll find the latest Messenger publication under the Community menu. We're waaaaaay bigger than the private Facebook group!
*Content topics include: Image campaigns to change perception of Black boys and men (photo, video, books, theatre, etc.) Educational seminars for members and the community at large (13th, Bullying, Legal Equalizer, Know Your Rights, Trauma, isow.com, Vision Board session, etc.) Forums and panel discussions Quarterly or monthly image campaigns Driven by Communications Committee Monthly virtual seminars with guest speakers Driven by Education and Engagement Committee in coordination with other committees for content and speaker ideas
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2018 Graduates and Prom Photos
By C.K. LeDaniel
Enjoy these awesome photos!
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Brothers!
By C.K. LeDaniel
Brothers are the best brothers! They are nurturing, protective, loving and fun! Here is some inspiration from an abolitionist poem: Am I not a man and brother; Ought I not, then, to be free? Enjoy these awesome photos.
Please enjoy these photos!
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Beth Lunde published Donovan’s Story: 14-Year-Old Father of Twins Defying the Odds in Content (c3) 2024-02-13 05:59:46 -0600
Donovan’s Story: 14-Year-Old Father of Twins Defying the Odds
By Rebecca Palermo
Michelle Carter’s voice fills with pride when she talks about her 15 year-old son, Donovan. “He’s incredibly mature and responsible. He doesn’t see himself as doing something remarkable—to him, he’s just doing what he’s supposed to do,” said the proud mom, who is a member of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Private Facebook group. Donovan is the father of twin toddler girls, named London and Paris, and he won custody of his daughters so that he could take responsibility for them, take care of them, and raise them in the supportive, loving, and conscientious way that he was raised.
A typical day in Donovan’s life is packed with responsibility and challenges. He wakes up early in the morning to get the girls ready for their day and to get himself ready for school. His stepmother comes by the house to take the girls while Donovan heads to school. He’s a good student who is engaged by his classes and teachers. He takes school seriously and even plays on the school football team. After school and any extracurricular activities are finished, Donovan heads home to parent his two daughters, doing everything from playing with them to feeding them dinner, bathing them, and putting them to bed. His proud mom works the third shift, and while she’s at home to support him after school, Donovan is self-motivated and takes charge of parenting his girls on his own.
Donovan admits that at first, he was overwhelmed by the responsibility of taking care of his daughters, especially when they were infants. But he went to see them everyday in the NICU, learned to care for them. When he saw that their mother was in a challenging situation, he decided that his home, with the support of his mother and his stepmother, would be the best, most stable environment for them. When the judge granted him custody of his girls, he stated that he was proud of the man, and the father, that Donovan was becoming.
His teachers and his coaches agree. He continues to do well in school, and his teachers know about his situation and are heartened by the fact that he is committed to his education while raising two daughters at a young age. He recently signed up for vocational school, and will begin to pursue a career in the culinary arts, for which he has always had an interest and an aptitude.
Donovan still makes time for his friends and for being a teenager. When the girls’ mother has them for the weekend, he’ll go over to his friends’ houses and enjoy being a kid. But when he’s on the clock as a parent and a student, his incredible maturity and resolve shines through. Michelle believes that even though he knows that he’s made mistakes in his past, he has taken full responsibility for them, and has a natural inclination to do the right thing. In turn, he’s been rewarded with two loving, playful, happy daughters who are being raised by a committed father.
Sometimes, our sons are presented with extraordinary opportunities, and we ought to shout it to the world! Our princes are doing BIG THINGS! How is your son shining his light? If you have a *Content story idea, please share with by commenting in the Gifted Sons post on Facebook, or send an email to [email protected] so we can feature him in our MOBB United for Social Change (MUSC)/MOBB United Messenger publication. Didn't know we had one? Visit www.mobbunited.org today to learn more about the organization. You’ll find the latest Messenger publication under the Community menu. We're waaaaaay bigger than the private Facebook group!
*Content topics include: Image campaigns to change perception of Black boys and men (photo, video, books, theatre, etc.) Educational seminars for members and the community at large (13th, Bullying, Legal Equalizer, Know Your Rights, Trauma, isow.com, Vision Board session, etc.) Forums and panel discussions Quarterly or monthly image campaigns Driven by Communications Committee Monthly virtual seminars with guest speakers Driven by Education and Engagement Committee in coordination with other committees for content and speaker ideas
