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  • Bridging The Gap - Police-In The Community

    “Police in the Community” — Gather every mom of a black boy you know. It’s time for another Talk on our next episode of “The New Talk: For Moms of Black Boys”

    January 2nd at 7 pm ET / 6 pm CT we talk with Kim Varner Sr. a 26-year retired veteran of the Jacksonville Sheriff's Office who lost his son to violence, shares profound insights on "Police in the Community: Truly Being a Part of the People." As the Senior Instructor and Director of Programs for Dedication to Community, a national nonprofit fostering healing and unity, his perspective is both eye-opening and motivational.

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  • published Reclaiming My Name! in Podcast Episodes 2024-03-11 11:37:52 -0500

    Reclaiming My Name!

    Featuring SONshine, Christopher Smith & his incredible mom, Regenna Grier. Christopher shares how he was wrongfully convicted of two armed robberies, was held on a million dollar bail, and spent thirteen years of his life trying to reclaim his name, freedom, and realize his dream of becoming a fire fighter. His mother Regenna, a DC police officer was forced to live her worst nightmare and was torn between her life's work and protecting her son.

     

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  • The Official Launch: An Intimate Chat with Kim & Depelsha

    MOBB United Founder Depelsha McGruder in conversation with newly announced Executive Director, Kimberley Alexander exploring Kim's journey and discussing what's in store for "The New Talk: For Moms of Black Boys" and MOBB United!

     

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  • Introducing: The New Talk — For Moms of Black Boys

    Launching November 28, 2023 — Listen to our Executive Director, Kimberley R. Alexander, and our first male intern, Jazz Miles, chat it up about what to expect in upcoming episodes!

     

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  • published Podcast Episodes in Home 2024-03-11 07:27:51 -0500

    "The New Talk" Podcast Episodes

    Know Your Rights!
    Posted by · September 26, 2024 6:00 PM · 1 reaction

    Election Talk With Dr. Koritha Mitchell
    Posted by · September 17, 2024 6:00 PM · 1 reaction

    Advocating for Educational Equity NOW, Building Up Leaders for Tomorrow
    Posted by · August 26, 2024 6:32 PM · 1 reaction

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  • Depelsha Thomas McGruder

      July 7, 2016

    I am starting this group today because I don't know what else to do. I am upset and in tears and living fear every day for my sons who are only seven and four. I cry on every one of their birthdays because I know that each year that they grow, they will be viewed as less innocent and more of a threat to society. This is not normal or fair. I am hoping that we can create a support system for each other -- If nothing else to have a private place to vent --or possibly to evolve into an education and advocacy group. For now, I just need the love and support for my sisters who may be feeling the same way :-( Thank you for joining.

    Original Facebook Group post:
    Depelsha McGruder Original 2017 Facebook Group Post

    Depelsha McGruder is Founder and Board Chair of Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. (MOBB United) and M.O.B.B. United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC). She is a distinguished leader committed to reshaping societal perceptions and policies impacting Black boys and men. Currently serving as the Chief Operating Officer & Treasurer at the Ford Foundation, Depelsha oversees global finance and operations for 11 offices across the US, Africa, Asia, and Latin America.

  • Kimberley Robinson Alexander

    In 2016 I found myself fighting alone. My son was nine years old and facing health challenges when he had his first police contact in his elementary school. I felt helpless as I saw the fear in my son's eyes. In his life there was so much I could not control, and now I could not control how the school was hurting him. I was in the middle of fighting, trying to preserve the hope in my son's eyes, the joy he once had when I was added to a group of women who were screaming the same thing. MOBB United gave me a place to turn my outrage into action and I felt less alone.

    I have watched this world incrementally dim the light from my son's eyes. Trying to restore the glow and remind him of his greatness is why I am still here.

    My two sons deserve to thrive, receive grace, love, peace, joy, and to have a future free of harm!

  • published Our Initiatives in The Work 2024-03-09 05:55:55 -0600

    Our Initiatives

    MOBB United is dedicated to eliminating the racial disparity that puts our Black sons at a disadvantage in the areas of education and the criminal justice system. To do this, we promote changing negative perceptions and increasing awareness and understanding of the plight of Black boys and men in America. We enable Moms of Black sons to tell their stories, celebrate their accomplishments, and connect them to opportunities that enrich the lives of their sons.

    Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. initiatives are designed to:

    • Change negative perceptions and stereotypes of Black males
    • Equip Moms with vital information needed to raise strong, successful Black sons
    • Promote self-care for the whole family

    Current Initiatives

    The New Talk for Moms of Black Boys Podcast

    The New Talk: For Moms of Black Boys

    In December 2023, M.O.B.B. United debuted our podcast The NEW Talk: For Moms of Black Boys. We are changing the way we talk to our sons; why we talk to our sons; and how we talk about our sons! Our SonShines deserve to grow up without the constant exposure to trauma, especially at home. We are having the broader conversations around life and the liberties all of our families deserve.

    We Are Changing the Narrative!

    If you are the parent of a Black boy, you know what THE TALK is. You also know what it feels like to see the innocence of childhood dimmed in the eyes of your SonShine, as you have that talk. But that is not all we are talking about!  THE NEW TALK is educating, enlightening, and sharing information to bridge the gap between all communities. 

    THE NEW TALK is for every member of the family as we are stronger together. The way we strengthen community is to join community in the solutions. 

    Tune in on the M.O.B.B. United LinkedIn, Facebook, Spotify, or YouTube pages to see previously aired episodes and catch all of our new content! 


    Le^el Up The V*te

    Our democratic process depends on us! The memoir of America tells the tale of how we had to fight for our right to vote, to exercise our right to vote, and all the ways this country has attempted to strip us of our right to vote. M.O.B.B. United knows all the reasons to be discouraged about participating in the voting process, but we must! 

    Le^el Up The V*te, MOBB United's voter education campaign is geared towards providing the educational resources needed to make an informed decision at the ballot box. The Le^el Up The V*te campaign will focus on all levels of the election process and how they impact our community directly. We need to be involved in state, city, and county elections if we want to affect change for our SonShines. 

     

    Let's Le^el Up The V*te today! 

    https://vote.gov/register


    Protect 'em Campaign

    The #ProtectEm campaign, initially launched as the #ProtectThem campaign, was one of the first actions taken by the organization in 2016, born of the frustration and urgent cries of Moms everywhere who were afraid for their son's safety in the hands of law enforcement.  The country was still reeling from the collective trauma of witnessing online the brutal treatment of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, followed by countless others. This social media imagery campaign quickly became a key initiative and cornerstone of the MOBB United mission.The intent is to flood the internet with positive images of Black boys and men; to soften them visually and underscore the reality that Black boys are not a monolith. We want to change the unfair narrative that our boys and men are inherently violent and lack boundaries. Our Black boys have to navigate life in the face of a world that devalues them; they work hard in school, play sports, have friends of all races, and have goals to become high school and college graduates and live productive lives. We want the world to see them the way their Mothers see them from birth - a precious life that deserves love and protection from harm.Since the inception of this campaign, we have used this ideology and hashtag across all our platforms to drive this message out to the masses in hopes that it will accomplish the very thing that MOBB United was founded upon; to change the perception of young Black males in society.

    Check out this #Protectem video!

     


    Half of the 250 Kids Expelled from Preschool Each Day Are Black Boys. 

    From the moment a Black boy is born, he enters a pipeline with a predetermined trajectory that often ends with being incarcerated. The School to Prison Pipeline is a real thing and it starts with a lack of GRACE for the SonShines we raise. History says making mistakes as a Black boy or man can be catastrophic at almost any age.

    M.O.B.B. United is tired of telling the story that ends with the disproportionate suspension, expulsion, and incarceration of our sons. ALL of our SonShines deserve GRACE, UNDERSTANDING, & LOVE. They deserve the opportunity to grow from mistakes rather than receive the harsh punishments the currently receive.

    The Grace Campaign

    The GRACE Campaign is M.O.B.B. United's newest Changing Perceptions initiative. We will be telling the stories of redemption and personal growth, despite the struggles our SonShines may have experienced. We want to demonstrate how providing support, love, compassion, and understanding while redirecting negative behavior can lead to outcomes that keep our SonShines at home, rather than the penal system. Our children can succeed and M.O.B.B. United wants to extend the GRACE they need to do so!


     

     

  • published Our 5 Pillars in The Work 2024-03-09 05:55:38 -0600

    Our 5 Pillars

    MOBB United's 5-pillar approach is our mission in motion—

    Each pillar demonstrates how MOBB United is working to bring our ultimate goal to fruition— a society where our SonShines are seen for the intelligent, innovative, loving, people they are! 

    1. Change Perceptions – Promoting positive imagery and providing opportunities for Black men and Boys to be seen as productive, contributing, values members of our society. 

    2. Influence Policy - Utilizing our collective voice in support of policies that protect Black men and boys and create and/or safeguard the basic freedoms all of our SonShines are entitled to.

    3. Demonstrate our Power – Leveraging our resources, and vote as a means to illustrate the power we have as a people.

    4. Partner Strategically – Partnering with like-minded organizations whose mission and purpose aligns with ours.

    5. Promote Self-Care -  Because we know this is a marathon not a sprint, we encourage and provide ways to preserve and replenish our fuel for the fight, centralizing on spirituality, mindfulness, and healthy self-care practices.

  • published Our Why in The Work 2024-03-09 05:54:55 -0600

    Our Why

    MOBB United - Our Why

    Like all moms, we want our SonShines to have a chance to live, learn, and leave their legacies. United, we will protect their right to do so and help them to not just survive but thrive.

  • published The Work in Who We Are 2024-03-09 05:52:25 -0600

    The Work:

  • published Executive Leadership in Who We Are 2024-03-04 03:37:52 -0600

  • published Message from our Founder in Who We Are 2024-02-29 10:19:56 -0600

    Message from our Founder

    Moms of Black Boys (MOBB) United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) are sister organizations that are dedicated to positively influencing how Black boys and men are perceived and treated by law enforcement and in society. MOBB United is a nationwide coalition of concerned moms of Black sons who represent every race, age, socioeconomic background, marital status and education level. What we share is unconditional love for our Black sons, and we want others to see them through our proud eyes.

    As moms, we have seen our sons enter the world innocently, take first steps, learn about love, pursue hopes and dreams, and experience disappointments and pain. Like all moms, we want our SUNS to have a chance to live, learn, and leave their legacies. United, we will protect their rights to do so and help them to survive and thrive.

    I am the mother of two Black sons. I started MOBB United as a friendly Facebook support group in July 2016. Since then, the movement has grown tremendously, giving birth to a national crusade that has instilled hope, empowerment, and an unwavering commitment to take action.

    Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. provides information and support for moms of Black sons and promotes positive images of Black boys and men. The organization is dedicated to changing perceptions, encouraging self-care, and fostering understanding of the plight of Black boys and men in America by telling their stories, celebrating their accomplishments, and connecting them to opportunities. The group supports moms by encouraging strong family and community connections and sharing information that empowers them to navigate all of the institutions that interact with, influence, and impact our sons.

    MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) is the advocacy arm and sister organization of Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Its goal is to influence policy at the federal, state, and local levels to ensure that Black boys and men are treated fairly and equitably. MUSC is focused on eradicating harassment, brutality, and unwarranted use of deadly force by law enforcement. We want our sons and law enforcement officers to make it home safely every night.

    MOBB United applies a multi-pronged approach that includes media campaigns and storytelling, education and engagement, political and economic empowerment, self-care, strategic partnerships and sustained advocacy and community involvement.

  • published Early Days in Who We Are 2024-02-17 08:50:54 -0600

    Early Days

    Newsletters:

    Blogs:

    • Founder's Corner - A message from MOBB United's Founder, Depelsha McGruder.
    • Cause (c4) - Policy analysis and advocacy/lobbying; voter education and mobilization; op-eds and media interviews; call center initiatives, letters, emails, petitions; rallies, marches, demonstrations and boycotts; local political activism (civilian review boards, city council, school boards, etc.); national events (e.g., DNC, CBC, etc.); quarterly or monthly action items focused on current cases, legislation, etc.; regular updates to stay on the pulse of key issues, cases, legislation and public figures related to our cause driven by policy, events and demonstrations, and economic development committees working in concert.
    • Content (c3) - Image campaigns to change perception of Black boys and men (photo, video, books, theatre, etc.) Educational seminars for members and the community at large (13th, Bullying, Legal Equalizer, Know Your Rights, Trauma, isow.com, Vision Board session, etc.) Forums and panel discussions Quarterly or monthly image campaigns Driven by Communications Committee Monthly virtual seminars with guest speakers Driven by Education and Engagement Committee in coordination with other committees for content and speaker ideas.
    • MOBB Connections - Quarterly or monthly local chapter meetings / recruitment outings; MOBB United connections; MOBB United Business Directory; special interest groups (e.g., special needs); driven by Chapter Development and Health and Wellness committees with support from Education and Engagement and Eco Dev committees for the directories; quarterly or monthly local chapter meetings/recruitment outings.
    • MOBB Speaks
  • published MOBB United Messenger Edition 7 - April 2018 in Early Days 2024-02-17 08:23:22 -0600

    MOBB United Messenger Edition 7 - April 2018

     

    Edition 7 April 2018
    MESSENGER #ProtectOurSons
     

    Founder's Corner: Our
    Sons' Right to BE

         Since the last edition of The Messenger, two more Black males have been in the news for being killed by police. 22-year-old Stephon Clark of Sacramento, CA was gunned down in his family's backyard while holding a cell phone. Officers fired 20 rounds, with 8 bullets piercing through Clark’s body...

     

    SPECIAL FEATURE

    Trayvon Martin Remembrance Weekend Reflections

    Image Description

         I sat in a Black SUV along with four others I had never met before. We got to know each other on the ride over to the peace walk/peace talk, and by the time we were there, we had formed our pack. It was hard to believe I had just landed in Miami, Florida, just 3 hours earlier. Though the excitement was...

     
     

    Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress

         The Policy and Advocacy Committee finalized and recently launched a new advocacy resource, the organization’s Legislative Policy Platform. The Legislative Platform outlines MOBB United for Social Change’s policy priorities and equips members to be informed about...

     

    MUSC Calls for Transparent and Expeditious Investigation into the Death of 22-Year-Old Stephon Clark

         On Sunday night, Stephon Clark was doing the same thing that many of us do regularly — he simply walked around the outside of his home with his cell phone in his hand. That night, Stephon was killed in the...

     

    Parkland Reflections

    On February 14th of this year, a young man armed with an AR-15 rifle entered his former high school, killed 17 people—mostly students—and injured 15. This was, by no means, the first school shooting we’ve seen; in fact, there have been at least 17 school shootings to date in 2018 alone. In part because of its...

     
     

    Donovan’s Story: 14-Year-Old Father of Twins Defying the Odds

    Michelle Carter’s voice fills with pride when she talks about her 15 year-old son, Donovan. “He’s incredibly mature and responsible. He doesn’t see himself as doing something remarkable—to him, he’s just doing what he’s supposed to do,” said the proud mom, who is a member of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Private Facebook group. Donovan is the father of twin toddler girls, named...

     

    Passover to Freedom

    Go Down, Moses” is commonly known as a “Negro Spiritual”, although it may have earlier origins as a rallying song for escaped slaves who joined Union forces in the Civil War. It is also reported to be a code song for slaves traveling the Underground Railroad out of Maryland. If you are familiar with this song, you may know...

     

    Brothers!

    Brothers are the best brothers! They are nurturing, protective, loving and fun! Here is some inspiration from an abolitionist poem: "Am I not a man and brother; Ought I not, then, to be free?" Enjoy these awesome photos...

     
     

    Special Needs Committee Update: Autism Awareness Month

    April is Autism Awareness Month. MOBB United has encouraged moms to be aware of these themes and participate in the following and activities...

     

    Education and Engagement Committee Update

    Hello, Moms of Black Boys United beauties! Happy April! Spring is finally here
    Our Education and Engagement Committee has been working towards keeping moms engaged through our monthly Facebook live readings and our MOBB United Book...

     

    Gifted Learners: Advocating for Screening and Referrals for Children of Color

    My son, Ezekiel, is never without a book in hand and a backpack full of reading on-the-go. As the youngest of five, he probably got read aloud to a little longer and a little more often than his siblings, with me not quite ready to let go of that sweet stage of snuggles and bedtime stories. So, it was no surprise...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    THANK YOU

    How can you support the cause to protect our sons?

     

         Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.

     

         Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.

     

         You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!

     

    Note: All store prices include shipping.

     
     
     
    *Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*
     
     
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       Prior Editions - Feb 2018, Dec 2017, Oct 2017, Sept 2017, Aug 2017, June 2017  
         
     
  • MOBB United Newsletter Edition 6 - February 2018

     

    Edition 6 February 2018
    MESSENGER #ProtectOurSons
     

    THE FOUNDER'S CORNER

    MOBB United: Striving to Become Experts in the Black Male Experience

         This month, I have been heavily reminded of the reason MOBB United exists. As you probably know, the organization started following multiple police killings of unarmed Black boys and men that were unjustified, but were not punished under the law. Although our mission started in response to police brutality and unwarranted use of deadly force by law enforcement, it doesn’t end there. This is because police brutality that leads to...

     

    SPECIAL FEATURE

    MLK Jr. Volunteer Day of Service and Remembrance Activities: Moms and Sons Giving Back

         For the second year, Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. were out and about on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service, January 15th, with our sons. The goal was to give back to those in need, honoring Dr. King’s legacy, while changing negative perceptions of our Black boys and men. Please enjoy these pictures of MOBB United moms and their sons doing what matters.

     
     

    Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress

         It’s a new year for MOBB United for Social Change’s Policy and Advocacy committee, and we will soon be rolling out our Legislative Platform. A new resource, the Legislative Platform will equip members to be informed about our policy priorities when they engage with partners and policy makers across the country. We will launch...

     

    MUSC Call Center Update

         We stand on the shoulders of our ancestors, moms who were on the frontlines of past Civil Rights movements and moms who resisted the status quo. We organize in the spirit of our righteous mentor, Fannie Lou Hamer, who infamously stated, "I am tired of being sick and tired.” We activate the principles of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC), which include showing our...

     

    MOBB United at San Diego Women's March

         On January 20th, thousands of women descended on Waterfront Park for the Women's March in San Diego, CA, to demonstrate their unity and be voices for those in need of support. MOBB United's Communications Committee Chair Vanessa McCullers gave a powerful and passionate speech on behalf of the sister organizations...

     

    Black Maternal Trauma
    Part 4: Paying for Freedom

    During President Barack Obama’s era, as it relates to judiciary and more specifically, prison and bail reform, the former President gave state judges discretionary powers to find alternative options to a custodial sentence if the perceived offender could not afford bail, such as a payment plan or community sentence. Just recently, Attorney General Jeff Sessions decided to...

     

    MUSC Official Statement on H&M

    Perception. It’s what differentiates ugly from beautiful, good from bad. For many, it relates specifically to how they view things, but for Black and brown boys and men and their moms who love them, it’s almost always connected to how our sons are viewed by society and those in authority. For centuries, Black people have been the object of...

     

    Facebook Re-Post: Cause

    The following posts were shared originally in the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. private Facebook group: H&M Op-Ed “No Monkeys Here” by Vanessa McCullers Picked up by Blavity and TVOne Screening and Panel with Eric Garner's Mom...

     

    Kneeling for Justice

    With Super Bowl LII just concluding with a Philadelphia Eagles victory over the New England Patriots, one has to wonder what happened to the Black Community and its allies taking a knee for justice? Just the other day, I was on Facebook, and my timeline was flooded with posts about how the Patriots were going to beat the Eagles in the big game. People of color were paying homage to Tom Brady and his athletic ability and his winning record. I was mortified...

     
     

    Gifted Sons Photo Feature

    Our princes are gifted and talented! Members of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. private Facebook group share photos with us so we can share their joy and pride with you. Enjoy this gifted sons photo feature!

     

    Aspiring with Asperger's: A Black Son's Journey into Professional Video Gaming

    Moms, if your 18-year-old Black son came to you and said, “I want to be a professional video gamer,” what would your reaction be? Close your eyes for 5 seconds, and imagine that scenario. If you put yourself in Aundrea Caldwell’s shoes, you might think, ‘WHAT THE...?! Boy bye!’ or something like that. But, there’s a twist here. What if your son also has...

     

    Mentoring Matters: Three Families’ Stories of Personal, Academic, and Professional Growth

    Encouraging our Black sons to shine is incredibly important to many members of the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Facebook group. We hear countless stories of young Black boys and men defining their ambitions, chasing their dreams, and exceeding their goals. In many of our sons’ lives, mentors play a positive and impactful role, inspiring their mentees to carve out a future that is fulfilling and allows them to make their mark on the world...

     

    Facebook Re-Post: Black Son Speaks out against Racial Profiling

    Not everyone understands the plight of Black boys and men in America, much less the plight of moms of Black boys, but it's nice to know that our sons themselves do understand. Mom Desiree Robinson is happy to share her 15 year old's perspective...

     
     

    Education and Engagement Committee Update

    Happy February, beauties! The Education and Engagement Committee has started reading another book, Between The World and Me, by Ta-Nehisi Coates. We have had three posts so far this month. If you haven’t already, hopefully you will begin reading the book with us and join in the discussion on Facebook by searching...

     

    MOBB United Connections: Auntie Teri Silar

    One of the initiatives of the MOBB United Connections Committee is the Aunties Program. The Aunties Program connects sons who are away from home at school, work, or in the military, with moms across the country. This program provides a village for our sons that ensures that they have their basic needs met, provides them with support from an adult who is nearby, and reassures their moms that their sons are doing well while away...

     

    MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU: Become a Volunteer Today!

    Volunteer Shout Out:
    Vanessa McCullers

     

    Where does she get the energy?! Vanessa McCullers has been going all out for MOBB United since July 2016, and she seems to be as fully charged as the Energizer Bunny. We know her passion is fueled by her love for her SONshine, Carlos. If you’re wondering what Vanessa does for MOBB United, the answer is well...everything!!! Vanessa initially began as Co-Chair of...

     

     

         She says, "The morning after Alton Sterling was killed, I went to wake my son for work and found him sitting up in bed. His first words to me was "Mom did you see how they just killed that man" I was too stunned to respond. The very next morning we found out that Philando Castile was killed. No words needed to be said. The words were on my son's face. He was scared, and so was I. But as his mother..."

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    THANK YOU

    How can you support the cause to protect our sons?

     

         Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.

     

         Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.

     

         You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!

     

    Note: All store prices include shipping.

     
     
     
    *Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*
     
     
    Our Mission
    About This Email
     
       Prior Editions - Dec 2017, Oct 2017, Sept 2017, Aug 2017, June 2017  
         
     
  • MOBB United Newsletter Edition 5 - December 2017

     

    Edition 5 December 2017
    NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons
     

    THE FOUNDER'S CORNER

    Volunteer: MOBB United Needs You

         Over the past year, MOBB United was busy at work advocating for the protection of our sons. We made our national debut at the Essence Festival in New Orleans this Summer and with the OWN Network on a show called “Checked Inn” ...

     

    SPECIAL FEATURE

    Holidays without Him

    Holidays without him

         Ahhh, the holidays are here! For many of us, this is a time of joyful anticipation, warm fuzzy feelings and memories of blissful family gatherings that may, or may not, include a heated discussion about who makes the best potato salad. All in all, the expectation is that the month of December ...

     
     

    MOBB United Online

         Moms of Black Boys (MOBB) United, Inc. and MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) are sister organizations that are dedicated to positively influencing how Black boys and men are ...

     

    Ed and Eng Committee Update: Black Minds Matter course

         Happy December, beautiful MOBB United Moms! We have had a busy year. One of the goals of the organization is to provide critical support to Moms and further their ability to advocate on behalf of their sons. The Education and Engagement Committee has several projects we have been working on to stay true to the MOBB United mission ...

     

    Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress

         The MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) Policy and Advocacy Committee sets the strategic policy priorities and drives advocacy initiatives for the organization. As a committee, we set and lead execution of MUSC’s policy agenda, research policies that impact Black men and boys, identify opportunities to advocate on ...

     
     

    Black Sons Abroad

         How many travel writers under the age of 10 years old do you know? None? Well, I'm excited to introduce you to 9-year-old Jace and his little brother, 8-year-old Merl. They are authors, travelers, and young Black princes making their way across the miles and making their ...

     

    Black Sons in Military Service

         James Weldon Johnson said: "We have come over a way that with tears has been watered, We have come, treading our path through the blood of the slaughtered, Out from the gloomy past, Here now we stand at last, Where the white gleam of our ...

     

    Gifted Sons -
    In the Shark Tank

         When the critically acclaimed reality show, Shark Tank, called Ryan Diew in the spring of 2017, his mom, Danine Manette, was not surprised. Ryan’s budding mobile app, Trippie, was in its infancy, but he had garnered recognition from a variety of authorities on entrepreneurship. Further, he had displayed ingenuity and ambition since ...

     

    If You Build It,
    They Will Come

         Many celebrities have used their positions in the spotlight to make small gestures that made huge statements and brought major progress in civil rights. For example, Nina Simone used her platform as a singer to produce songs that contained lyrics congruent to her beliefs on civil rights. Not only did these songs empower the ...

     
     

    Special Needs Committee Overview

         The ability to experience profound worry is almost a prerequisite for motherhood. When you’re the mother of a Black boy born into this American society, that worry increases exponentially ...

     

    Chapter Development Overview

         Chapter Development began just a few days after the Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. group was formed on Facebook. With a vast number of moms joining the private group and wanting to connect, we began to create state files so that moms in the same area could connect locally. This was an awesome idea, as many members began ...

     

    Moms Reaching across the Race Aisle: True Sisterhood

         My first Cabbage Patch doll was a little boy with dark, chocolate skin, and the first boy I kissed was a sweet, nerdy Black kid. My folks were both in education, voted Democrat, and believed that their actions spoke louder than words. I was the blue-eyed ...

     

    Strategic Financial Partnerships: Banking and Buying Black

         In 2011, I moved my money out of a big bank and into a small credit union, one that serves the community of color in which I work. I did this on Bank Transfer Day, launched that November 5th by a woman in California who was ired by newly imposed ATM fees. Bank Transfer Day coincided ...

     

    Facebook Repost: Lynda Jones on Incarcerated Sons

         Publisher's Note: Usually, what is discussed in the Moms of Black Boys United private Facebook group remains confidential. Once in awhile though, we get permission from members to repost entries of notable impact. Check out this one by mom Lynda Jones ...

     

    MOBB United Poetry

    The Legacy of America

    "Red, white, and blue, yes, you!

    When all is said and done what will be the legacy of your daughters and your sons?

    Will we remember the true natives who were slaughtered and uprooted so that flags of England could be placed upon bloody soil?

    Do you hear the beat of their drums? The war cry of their souls? Their arrows piercing the wind?

    Fooled into believing their foes were..."

     

    MOBB UNITED NEEDS YOU: Become a Volunteer Today!

         Volunteer Shout Out
    Natasha Marie

     

         This lady right here! Natasha Marie has hit the ground running with MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) and Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. She volunteered to write for the newsletter and has so far turned out some excellent pieces: “Young, Black and Incarcerated” and “Hopes and Dreams while Serving Time”, both of which give a powerful voice to moms of incarcerated sons. Check out her latest...

     

         She says, "Being a volunteer with MOBB United has literally been a Godsend! My prayer has been to connect with other women who are of like-minded faith. Finding other women who are mothers (particularly of Black boys) has been an added bonus to my prayers..."

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    THANK YOU

    How can you support the cause to protect our sons?

     

         Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.

     

         Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store.

     

         You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!

     

    Note: All store prices include shipping.

     
     
      *Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Rebecca Palermo, and Vivian Nwankpah, Beth Lunde, and Theresa Cunningham, for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*
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  • MOBB United Newsletter Edition 4 - October 2017

     

    Edition 4 October 2017
    NEWSLETTER #ProtectOurSons
     

    THE FOUNDER'S CORNER

    Supporting Moms of Black Boys United, Inc.

         If you've been following our organization for a while, you already know that there are two sides to MOBB United's mission and approach. MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) is our membership organization, which is dedicated to advocating for policy change at the local, state, and federal...

     

    SPECIAL FEATURE

    MOBB United Weathering the Storms

        Perhaps it was a moment of deja vu as the nation watched another hurricane form in the Atlantic after Hurricane Harvey had already devastated Texas just a couple of weeks before. This time, it was Irma who threatened the Caribbean and the state of Florida as...

     
     
    CBC ALC

    Policy and Advocacy Committee Progress

        This summer, in partnership with our 501c3 sister organization, Moms of Black Boys United, Inc., the Policy and Advocacy Committee of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC) has focused on outreach to congressional and state representatives. Revamping #MOBBUnitedGetInvolved, we reached out to and organized meetings with key stakeholders, Congressional representatives in particular. We kicked off the initiative with outreach to...

     
    Fundraising

    Supporting Moms of Black Boys United, Inc.: Fundraising Strategy

        This edition of the newsletter is dedicated to Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. the 501c3 sister organization of MOBB United for Social Change, Inc. (MUSC)...Your support will continue our efforts to build...

     
    CBC ALC

    HUFF Post Features Mom Kara Higgins' Op-Ed: "I am that B____."

        On September 27, HUFF POST shared an article covering a recent Op-Ed penned by MOBB United member, Kara L. Higgins titled "I am that B____"

    Kara wrote the piece as a way to capture our collective displeasure at the compounding racial tensions and how it affects our Black boys and men. Thank you, Kara, for so eloquently putting into words what many of us feel every day...

     
    Education and Engagement Kumari Ghafoor-Davis

    Education and Engagement Committee Overview

        The Moms of Black Boys United, Inc. Education and Engagement Committee works to provide informative resources and referrals. The committee connects with community organizations and forms partnerships with law enforcement agencies, schools and other organizations to support the growth, development, and success of Black boys and men. Moms can get information and resources to be even better moms and seek guidance about their children’s social, academic...

     
    Uchechi Eke

    Black Maternal Trauma -
    Part 3

        This article discusses the impact of negative, derogatory terms and stereotypes on the psyches of mothers and their sons...

     
     

    Black Sons Abroad - Part 2

         As our series on Black Sons Abroad continues, I had the pleasure of talking with two moms who are raising their young princes, both 4 years old, in the United Kingdom (UK)...

     
    Hopes and Dreams while Serving Time

    Hopes and Dreams while Serving Time

       Nothing is more fervent than a mother’s love...When her son falls, a mom is always there to pick him up and dust off his every bruise...

     
    Tiffany Bargeman

    To Say or not to Say?

        Do you ever wonder whether or not you should respond to ignorance, afraid that you may offend someone? Well, until just recently...

     
     

    Black Boy Joy!

         Our sons often are perceived by society and law enforcement as hyper-masculine, violent, threatening, unemotional, hard and impervious...But we moms know them better than that. We know their full...

     
     
    Hostess Natasha Marie

    Woke Mom Meetups

        Woke Mom Summer meetups were hot throughout August and September! Hostesses Shantia Coley and Sandra Kearns showed up and showed out in Charlotte and San Antonio on the same day, while Natash Marie and Dannie Jo took on upstate New York with a Woke...

     
    Black Boy Feelings: Vol. 1: Boyhoo Co-Authors Richard Bryan and Jeana Lindo, Black Boy Feelings

    An Interview with Richard Bryan on Black Boy Feelings: Vol. 1: Boyhood"

        "Honestly, the hope is that we can shed more light on the infinite variety that exists within the spectrum of Black masculinity. We want Black men to think more deeply about their emotions and believe that their artwork is valid and valuable. Mainstream society is mostly only concerned..."

     

    She says, "I MOBB because Black boys and men walk a tight rope between their educations, their futures, their families and the systemic racism of racial profiling and mass incarceration. I MOBB because as the mother of a Black boy, I cannot be idle. I have to try and change the world."

    Volunteer Shout Out:
    C.K. LeDaniel

        Passionate, vocal, caring, self-aware, protective, willing, proactive...these are just the first few characteristics that come to mind when C.K.'s name is mentioned. She has made many contributions to Moms of Black Boys United, Inc...

    READY TO VOLUNTEER?

    *The organization is seeking help in many areas, including copy editing, research, graphic design, etc. We have an urgent need for Chapter leaders for cities and towns all across the country. If you're ready to start a local chapter, the Chapter Leader application is available.*

     

     

     Purchase from the MOBB United store to support the cause

     

     

    Purchase from the MOBB United store to support the cause

    How can you support the cause to protect our sons?

          Join MOBB United for Social Change: All organization activities are funded through membership dues, store purchases, and donations. We look forward to you joining our mission.

         Purchase MOBB United for Social Change merchandise: You'll find unique apparel and gifts for all through the online store. You can view and purchase items through secure credit card transactions, search the online store for a particular item, select item attributes (i.e., size and color, when applicable), and designate your order mailing address -- home, work or wherever you choose!

    Note: All store prices include shipping.

     
     
    *Special thanks to C.K. LeDaniel, Teri Harris and Vivian Nwankpah>
    for their contributions in the preparation of the newsletter.*
     
     
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